Listen

Have you ever listened to yourself in an argument?

Do you hit below the belt
Do you say things you don’t mean

Do you both speak but not listen

What can be done so both people feel like they are being heard

So both opinions matter

Why are relationships so hard
Why is communication so hard

Why does one have to control the emotions of the other
Why does one think the other should conform to the way they feel, the way they think

Is a relationship about conformity, compromise, or are we one and we make decisions together.

What do you when you feel unheard, left out of the decision that affects both of you?

Do you listen to the things that come out of your mouth?
Should you conform to the others opinion or do you stand your ground
What do you do
How can you listen to be heard instead of hear but not listen.

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